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| Egg babies |
Most recently in Health, we have been studying the responsibilities of parenting and the nine month process of creating a child. In order to learn about this, we have completed the "egg baby challenge" in which we had to, for 24 hours, look over one (or more) babies. In order to complete the task, we had to bring a container as well as toys for our babies, decorate them, and, most importantly, look after them by carrying them around on our daily routine. Our grade would lower with
One of my favourite parts of being an egg baby parent was the general aspect of having an additional responsibility. The eggs strangely made me feel like I had to act more responsible and yet that much more delicate. Furthermore, the authority of having two fragile objects to look over was exciting as well. On top of this, I enjoyed having the ability of customizing the eggs and the carrier to my liking.
As a seventh grader, walking through the over-crowded middle school hallways has become a simple part of day-to-day life. Squeezing through throngs of people to snatch a spot in the lunch line has become intuitive, albeit with such delicate items, my day-to-day routine was largely modified. I had to cautiously walk slower whilst cradling my "children." Additionally, I had to alter my routine in the sense that I was unable to shake off a mere nudge. Instead, whenever something as slight as a brush grazed my arm, I found myself covering the container holding my egg babies.
On the other hand, in my opinion, a teen expecting or with a child's life would have to greatly adapt in order to conform to the authority of being a parent. According to the National Dropout Prevention Organization, 27.8% of females leave school due to a pregnancy. Moreover, only 6.2% of males dropout of education to become a father while, to contrast, a shocking 25% of females stop their edification in order to put their life and full attention to becoming a mother. This greatly impacts a still-growing adolescent's life, putting unnecessary barriers in front of them. Children all over the world have dreams about attending an Ivy League University or about pursuing the career options which range from lawyer to doctor, astrologist to banker, although having the reputation of "teen parent" can heavily clout one's decision, rather it be a representative of a school or of a company. In many cases, a large fraction of students do not return to school after giving birth. To relate to my life, being a teen parent would change my childhood in many ways. Firstly, I would go from being a child to an adult at, per se age 16 or 18 or even as young as 14. To add to this, I would loose opportunities as big as pursuing careers to getting allowed into a college. Even small opportunities, for instance, joining sports teams, going to friend's parties, and vacations would seem like a grand leap from the state I would be in.
Throughout this project, I have learned how important it is to be a responsible learner. Albeit this may seem obvious, I felt as though as a "parent," we had to be much more responsible, as opposed to the everyday chore of taking my materials to class. Being in charge of such a fragile, delicate object gave me the feeling that I had to be constantly aware of my surroundings and alert. Instead of looking at the abstract idea of the project, which was essentially to keep the baby from cracking, we had to zoom in on multiple parts of the project. For example, instead of just making the baby carrier pretty, it had to be suitable and safe for the eggs as well. This summarises the project in a different light; In life, with a child, parents are not stuck with the child for 24 hours, but a lifetime, which requires constant care. A parent cannot just dress the child up and paint a face on it as we did with the eggs. Parents can only pave part of the path for children, but cannot guide them the entire way. In relation to the core value, parents must be responsible in the sense that they have to create a home and childhood for a child, but cannot be responsible down the life-long road.
To generalise, a core value that I believe that I must improve on would be curious. I always try to push myself to ask questions that will provide a more in-depth understanding about the topic, but it tends to feel more unnatural as opposed to modelling the other core values. I basically would like to make being a curious learner more of a habit then something that I must think about more.
After a painstaking 24 hours of meticulous caution, I have survived the egg baby challenge without slipping through the cracks. Without a doubt, the Challenge is definitely less difficult then being a real-life teen parent, but truly does simulate reality, which is the fact that the life of a teen can dramatically change when the weight of a child adds on to a not-yet-developed family.



